With Father’s Day just past, we are mindful of greater awareness by employers that workers have a life outside of the workplace and that employee satisfaction with their jobs doesn’t stop when the workday ends. Of course the benefit of this awareness is that happy employees are often more productive employees who want to stay with the organization.

The problem that sometimes arises here is that childbirth (or adoption or foster care) is still primarily focused on the mother. After all, it’s the woman who gives birth and, sadly, it’s the woman who is still generally seen as the primary caretaker of children, especially infants and young children. It is laudable when employers want to ease the transition of a new child in the family by giving an employee some paid time off; it is a formula for trouble when that paid leave is different for men versus women.
Let me be clear, this is not to say that employers cannot offer paid time off to female workers for the physical recovery after childbirth unless they offer the same paid time off to fathers. It is the paid time off that employers offer to workers for bonding with a new child and transitioning the family through the addition of a new member that should be the same.

Interestingly, a recent survey by the Society of Human Resource Management (SHRM) found that of employers who responded, most who offered paid parental leave gave more time off for bonding to mothers, not only reaffirming the stereotype that mothers are the primary caretakers of children, but maybe violating the law. Employers should make sure that they separate disability benefits for biological mothers (time off to recover from childbirth) from paid time off for bonding with a new child. That bonding time should be the same for both female and male workers.